Be Do Have TV - Helping Hand

Taking First Step

2011-02-08T09:28:29+00:00

Phone calls and emails received from our viewer: -I love the show, only I really wanted to ask you, what does BE DO HAVE TV mean? All my family is trying to work it out but we can’t. -Me and my family want to set up our company, we dream about having our own business, but we are so scared to start something because it’s a big step for us. What if it doesn’t work out? -Hi Petra, lm loving your show by the way! I’ve been working four and half years and l hate this job. I want to find a new job, but l don’t know where to start. Can you help me to find a new job? -My husband always falls whatever he does. I’m fed up of having to keep reliant on friends and family to support me. Tereza -I have a lot of university work to do, but l don’t know where to start. Do you have some motivation types for me?

Success Story of Helle Strebl

2011-02-08T09:28:25+00:00

In this program Petra Oblak addresses the following questions for Helle Strebl: -What does it take for you to prepare for competition? How long it takes, what is your day like when you are preparing for competition? -What were you like as a child? Did you always know what you wanted from life? Did you always wanted to be the best fitness model? -Do you remember the day you went to gym for the first time? -Who was your hero? -How did the life journey towards your goal change over the years? Did you have different goals, one goal? -Do you ever take a break from your focus and break from your goal? -What keeps you motivated and committed every day? Do you ever wake up and say: “I feel tired, I can’t be bothered, that is it, no more gym for me, no more heavy weights”. -If people have trouble with motivation, I don’t mean only going to gym, in general, what would you advise them? -What is important when making fitness goal? -What is ultimate Goal? -What about challenges, barriers that we come across when working towards our goal? -How about diet, what do you eat? -How important is food and what would you advice our viewers to eat?

Healing

2011-02-08T09:28:20+00:00

Emails received from our viewers: -I struggle with my weight since I remember. I am now 52 years old and because of being overweight I have back pain. I can’t walk long distances, my cholesterol is high. I know that I need to follow healthy life style or I will get seriously ill, but I just can’t do it… What shall I do? Would life coaching help me? -I have been suffering from cancer for over 4 years. I am in and out of the hospital. And I find your programs nice and positive, but with my illness there is really not much hope. How do you expect me to keep positive and happy? -My father’s health is in total ruins. Yeas of smoking and alcohol abuse completely destroyed his health. I can’t bear watching him this way… but he just doesn’t care. I have two sons, and they love their granddad so much, we are pleading him to pull him together, but it’s like talking to a brick wall. You are my last hope. What can we do to help him? -I find it difficult to keep fit, and I find very difficult to deal with problems in life...I would go to gym, but everyone else I know go to pub for example. I could cope with stress at work, but everyone is so stressed, so it is not only my own stress, I need to keep up with other people issues. I really don’t see how life coaching can help me. Simon

Unwelcomed Changes

2011-02-08T09:28:16+00:00

In this program, the following questions, received either via E-mail, text or calls are addressed: - Firstly, I love your show. Thank you so much, for being there...I just got divorced after 23 years of marriage. I have 21 years old son and we find difficult to talk about divorce. My husband left me for 20 years old girl, she is younger than our son.... my son is devastated, I am in ruins. We don’t see the way out, we feel like we are worthy nothing, that all our life was a lie. I don’t know where to start...Do you have an advice for me? - Just want to say firstly, that I absolutely love the show...I lost my job few weeks ago and this is the reason I was at home every morning, watching your show. I loved my old job, it was my life. I got redundant, I am only 29, and it killed my confidence. I am devastated...I just want my old life back, I am lost. Can you help me in any way? I will do life coaching if you think it will help me. - I just found out I am pregnant. I have been in a relationship for 8 months and I love my boyfriend. I am very happy but I don’t know what to do. I have no idea how to tell my boyfriend. I am scared to lose him. I don’t want to lose him. What shall I do?

Set a Goal

2011-02-08T09:28:13+00:00

Emails from our viewers: -I know the importance of goal setting, but I just don’t know what I want. Nothing that I do really excites me. I usually give up very quickly. I just don’t know what I want from life. -I always did whatever my parents told me to do. I had to play piano, go to medical school. I am 47 years old and never did anything that I really wanted to do. I sometimes feel I have to live my life for my parents. Is there a way out? -I know what I want, but I would have to change my life completely, my life would be totally upside down. I would have to move to another country, leave my friends and family behind, my job...but I really want this dream. What shall I do? I feel I will not rest until I go. Barbara. -I can’t decide between 2 jobs. They are both completely different, but both are so perfect and both leading to great opportunities. I just don’t know which one to pick...I am worried that I will end up in the wrong job and then be unhappy for the rest of my life. How do I know which job is right for me? -I am in relationship for 10 years and I really want to get married...My boyfriend on the other hand, thinks marriage is not necessary. How can I reach my goal, my childhood dream... it is my only goal, and I am really worried, I will never live my dream. -Whatever I do in life, I always come across problems. It is impossible to reach my dreams, because life is so difficult. What do you do when you come across problems? Kim. Emails from our viewers: -I know the importance of goal setting, but I just don’t know what I want. Nothing that I do really excites me. I usually give up very quickly. I just don’t know what I want from life. -I always did whatever my parents told me to do. I had to play piano, go to medical school. I am 47 years old and never did anything that I really wanted to do. I sometimes feel I have to live my life for my parents. Is there a way out? -I know what I want, but I would have to change my life completely, my life would be totally upside down. I would have to move to another country, leave my friends and family behind, my job...but I really want this dream. What shall I do? I feel I will not rest until I go. Barbara. -I can’t decide between 2 jobs. They are both completely different, but both are so perfect and both leading to great opportunities. I just don’t know which one to pick...I am worried that I will end up in the wrong job and then be unhappy for the rest of my life. How do I know which job is right for me? -I am in relationship for 10 years and I really want to get married...My boyfriend on the other hand, thinks marriage is not necessary. How can I reach my goal, my childhood dream... it is my only goal, and I am really worried, I will never live my dream. -Whatever I do in life, I always come across problems. It is impossible to reach my dreams, because life is so difficult. What do you do when you come across problems? Kim.

Beliefs and Positive thinking

2011-02-08T09:28:09+00:00

In this program Life Coach Petra Oblak addresses the e-mails and calls received from our viewers -I am really inspired by your programs, they are great...I have an easy job that pays well, but I am not happy. I want more from life...but I am scared of failure...Do you think that we should be grateful for what we have and not be greedy for better life? -I was watching your relationship program because I really want to have a nice relationship, but I’m single and just kind get a nice boyfriend. Even if I like someone, I always feel I am not good enough, not pretty enough...I am 32 years old and I am getting quite depressed over this issue. Which program do you think would work for me? -Hello, my name is Cathy. I am in relationship for over 3 years. Over the period of time, my boyfriend started to be more and more aggressive, but not physically, no, he would never hurt me, but verbally. He would tell me I am fat, my hair looks funny, I am Dum...he says he loves me, but this really doesn’t make me feel any good, because few moment latter he puts me down. Do you think I should live him?

Relationships Coaching General

2011-02-08T09:28:05+00:00

Emails addressed in this program that we received from our viewers: -I am in relationship for just over 2 years. I love my boyfriend, but he is drinking and smoking too much and I really don’t like it...it really bothers me. -Why men have to lie to women even in totally not important things? I am in relationship for 8 months. I am 19 years old. -Why girls don’t like boys who are good to them and would do everything for girl and are very polite, but they usually falling in love with boys who don’t really care about them and are bad to them? -I enjoy your programs. I have one question for you: Why women never say directly what they want, but they all time expect men to know it? -I’m in relationship and everything is great, l love him and want to be with him, but sometimes l need some excitement, not just romantics evenings together. But if I got out with my friends, he is angry. How can l solve that? -I watched your program on Relationship coaching. I feel stronger and more confident. But I still have a problem. You know when you talk about what Love is Not? Well, things that you say Love is Not, I experience in my life, but I still love my husband. But I am suffering and I don’t know what to do. I still love him. -We constantly argue, but we can’t break up. We fight and argue, but next day we always make up. This is going on for 2 years and I am exhausted..... My boyfriend says, everyone argues and that we are no different to other couples. But I am getting tired... what to do?

Life Coaching General

2011-02-08T09:28:02+00:00

Emails addressed in this program received from our viewers: -Everything in my life is going wrong...I am getting deeper and deeper into unhappy life, but have no energy to do something about it. Where do I start? How long it will take? -Hello, I just wanted to say how I enjoy watching your programs...your programs do inspire me...I am more positive. I was going to ask you, do you have a life coach or do you go through your own life coaching programs? -I find difficult to manage my time. I am always late, I am behind with studies, I can’t organise myself. Do you have any simple tips? Life Coaching questions addressed in this program: 1. What makes you say, that everything in your life is going wrong? What exactly is going wrong in your life? 2. Write down everything that you are not happy with in your life, every area of your life that you wish to improve. 3. Which area, that you are not happy with, would be the easiest to improve? 4. Which area, that you are not happy with, irritates you most? 5. Which area, that you are not happy with, you think will take longest and will be most difficult to improve? 6. Write down at least 7 things in your life that you are happy about. Must be 7. 7. Write down at least 7 things that motivate you in your life!

Life Coaching Support

2011-02-08T09:28:00+00:00

Life coaching challenges from our viewers: -As you go through the session, you keep getting interrupted, no peace or quite time alone. It is very frustrating, especially when interrupted during the meditation. -No support from your family, some even get laughed at for wanting to take life coaching serious. -You know life coaching makes sense, but you still can’t make it work for you. -You start on Monday, but give up by Wednesday. -You just don’t know what you want from life. -Your life is completely in disarray: no money, bad relationship, no will power…don’t know where to begin. -You are not happy: married with children, no job, how can you possibly change your life, it would be too complicated. I don’t have life, I live for others.